I've known Anna since I started dating her daughter Laura back in 1985. It was clear to me before I became her son-in-law how much she gave to her family out of love (caring for her parents and parents-in-law, caring for her children and grandchildren, and in the last years of his life caring for her beloved husband Donald); it was not surprising then in talking to her about her career as a teacher to hear how much she cared for her students. Her life was one of living her love and her faith and I am glad that I knew her.
I have been teaching for 37 years now, and I go through many of the same things at the end of the Fall semester each year. There is relief at the completion of a significant task (teaching each of my classes) but there is a good deal of physical and mental weariness and aches. I could sleep for several days straight if not for my sleep disorder. By and large my mind is not very sharp and as an introvert I try to be pleasant with loved ones but am not outgoing at all. With age the feeling of being drained deepens in more and more ways. Of course this is when we have, almost every year, taken a road trip to visit birth families in the Northeast, a full day of driving each way, often involving winter weather far worse than what we are accustomed to in NC. I love my birth family members as well but as with my created family I am weary and not very outgoing. The conversation is rarely about me and my day-to-day life but rather about younger family members and family friends that I do not kn...
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